I’ve been dating a wonderful guy for four months. He’s 41, I’m 37. We enjoy each other’s company immensely; we laugh a lot and he fucks like a champ–definitely a keeper. But I have a couple issues with him that I don’t know how to broach. He has a dental bridge that looks like it’s in serious need of a change. He also uses his floor as his closet, and his apartment isn’t always tidy. I think he’d be even finer than he is if he fixed his teeth and cleaned his house. How do I bring this up without offending him? Should I bring it up? –Just That Into Him
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Shhh–do you hear that rumbling sound? That’s a million angry women and 25 feminist men pounding out angry e-mails. “It was extraordinarily sexist of you to suggest that this woman clean up after this man,” tap tap tap, blah blah blah. “I had to check the cover of the paper to make sure I wasn’t reading Christianity Today! For shame, Mr. Savage!”
As long as there’s some semblance of balance, some cheerful reciprocity, why not do his damn laundry?
The thing you missed about Jason Fortuny’s Craigslist experiment was that he was posting as a submissive woman. It doesn’t take a load of
There’s just no excuse for Fortuny’s actions–none whatsoever.
