My boyfriend of four years enjoys wearing women’s clothing and acting like a submissive woman when we have sex. Nothing gets him off more. We have only just started exploring his fetish in the past year because he has been ashamed of it all his life. I have encouraged him so far, and now we have a couple hundred dollars’ worth of sexy women’s clothing that fits him. Last night he asked me if he could wear a latex mask of a woman’s face during sex. That crossed the line for me. I hate it when he puts on skirts and high heels and asks me to fuck him. It’s a huge turnoff. I have not enjoyed sex with him for months. I want him to be sexually satisfied, but his fetish disgusts me. I’m a straight woman, and I want to have sex with a man who is acting like a man. What do I do? –Femme Teasing Mask
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Maskon.com is run by Kerry, “a straight, male crossdresser who loves to make and wear lycra costumes along with high heels, wigs, and latex masks,” according to the bio on his Web site. At first, Kerry made masks only for his own enjoyment; it wasn’t until after other cross-dressers started asking him if they could buy his masks that he decided to go into the mask-making business. I contacted Kerry via his Web site, FTM, and asked him if he had any advice for you.
I agree with Kerry, FTM. You’ve created a monster, kiddo, and you need to take some responsibility for the mess you’ve made. It’s one thing to encourage your partner to explore a fetish that you’re willing to play along with or, if you’re lucky, you enjoy on some level. But encouraging your partner to explore a fetish that disgusts you? That’s as good as signing your relationship’s death warrant!
Amen, sister.
3.) Knee tickling.
8.) Saying things I do are “cute.”
1.) Straight guys don’t care about the texture of boxer shorts–their own or anyone else’s.
