I’m a 20-year-old woman going to school in New York. Recently I admitted to myself that I’m either a lesbian or a strongly female-oriented bisexual and ended my first-ever relationship with a boyfriend.
Mitchell was slapping me down for suggesting that you, as a relatively inexperienced young woman, were in the right place. I mean, is there a better spot on the planet for a woman to explore her sexuality than fucking New York City? And isn’t Shortbus, Mitchell’s new film, a loving portrait of New York City’s sexual demimonde, complete with full-on, hard-core, integral-to-the-plot sex? I thought Mitchell would order you to get your ass down to the Village or over to Brooklyn or up to the Bronx or wherever hip sexual nonconformists are this week.
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But while making Shortbus, Mitchell told me, “I ate pussy for the first time.” One of his actors told Mitchell that since he was asking his performers to push their sexual boundaries, he should too. “I said, ‘Well, I’ll do something that I’ve never done, in a gesture of solidarity.’ And so I ate some pussy.” So how was it? “It was delicious, but I didn’t get turned on.”
to these feelings?
Fast-forward to now. I dream about towering over my male sex partners. I masturbate about it. I’ve searched online and found to my surprise that I’m not the only one. I even found a magazine, Giantess, that was exactly what I have been fantasizing about. Unfortunately it’s no longer in print.
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