My stepdad is gay. He fell in love with and married my mom anyway, and they appear to have a strong relationship despite his sexual preference–they love each other, had a baby together, and seem to be committed. A few days ago I found a search for “men seeking men” on his computer. I brought up the subject of their relationship with my mom without telling her what I found, and she said that they’re currently monogamous. I don’t think she would lie to me about this. Should I tell my mom, confront my stepdad, or just keep my mouth shut? –Stepdaughter Needs Assistance for Understanding
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So, SNAFU, finding a search for “men seeking men” on your stepdad’s computer tells us nothing about his intentions. And faithful or not, monogamous or not, seeking or not, it’s none of your business, is it?
I’m a youngish guy having NSA sex with a friend. Neither of us is in a relationship, we’re both really horny, and one night we jumped each other. We’re established fuck buddies now. We’re honest, we’ve talked about how this is just sex, etc, and we’re keeping it a secret. (We have the same friends, and one of them got mad when he found out.) But I’m not really satisfied. Even though the sex is spectacular when it’s happening, I feel unfulfilled afterward. My ideal relationship would be concentrating on a single guy and fucking him silly. What’s wrong with me? Is a fuck-buddy thing unhealthy? –Help Another Lusty Fucking Lad Address Internal Difficulties
