I’m a 21-year-old bisexual male who recently moved back home to Canada from overseas. For the last two months I was there I was involved with my first male partner. He was a virgin, I wasn’t. He knew about my bisexuality and one night propositioned me. I initially refused because I wasn’t really all that attracted to him, but a couple weeks later I asked him if he was still interested because I wanted to experiment. We wound up having sex pretty much every day for two months. He kept telling me he loved me, but I made it very clear to him that for me this wasn’t anything serious. Eventually I conceded that I did love him, albeit in a different way than he loved me.
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Now he wants to fly over here to see me. I’ve already decided never to have sex with him again. I don’t want to hurt him, but I can’t stand his letters anymore. I’m not interested in being with him. Though we were fucking all the time, it wasn’t ever a true relationship to me. But since I was the first person he told about his homosexuality, he credits me with being the single most important person he has ever met.
Open your mouth and solve your problem, CIC.
My boyfriend is uncircumcised. In general this is no big deal. However, his dick often tastes and smells like pee. I’ve observed that he doesn’t pull back the foreskin when taking a piss, and I think pee gets trapped under it. I often find myself unable to give him blow jobs because I dislike the taste and smell. I want to be a good, giving, and game lover–and if a man didn’t want to go down on me because of the taste I’d think he was an insensitive bastard. But I know I’ll never enjoy giving him oral sex while I’m tasting pee.
Sure it can happen, AIA–if you’re willing to pay to play. Gym memberships, protein supplements, and steroids are all expensive, and there are lots of bodybuilders out there who help make ends meet by renting themselves to guys like you.
