I’m a straight female who’s been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for three years. I’m also a politically connected woman who’s very much in control; when I say no I mean no. A little more about me: I was born in Alabama, play the piano, and for a while was a professor at Stanford University. Currently I hold a high-ranking position in Washington, D.C. I have a tattoo of George W. Bush on my right breast, but apart from that I’ve always been an average gal, especially in bed. Now, though, I’m in a real state.
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My problem goes back to the beginning of my relationship, when my boyfriend tried to lick and finger my ass. I very firmly told him to stop, that anal sex totally disgusted me and I’d never allow anything–his cock included–into my butt. Needless to say, I hurt his feelings, but for a couple of years he respected my wishes. During the past several months, however, I’ve relented and allowed him to perform anilingus and to finger me–I’ve even allowed him to insert a narrow vibrator up there. At first I found this repellent, but I wanted to avoid hurting his feelings again. After a while I came to enjoy anal stimulation, but I didn’t tell him I liked it.
Here’s your letter, CONDI. Hopefully your boyfriend will read it, recognize you, and find the courage to bang away at your ass without making you beg for it first, thereby saving you from having to admit what a dirty little butt-sex-obsessed slut you are.
However flattered this straight construction worker is by your attentions, HHH, up to this point he’s been entirely passive, just someone out there doing his job while you stare. But when you ask him to wear a jockstrap, get it all sweaty, and return it you, you’re asking him to become a participant in your sexual fantasies. Include the $20 and he may resent being treated like a whore–a cheap one at that.
But making a donation to Planned Parenthood isn’t heroic–really, anyone can do it. Just write out a check to Planned Parenthood, put it in an envelope, and mail it to Planned Parenthood Federation of America, 434 W. 33rd St., New York, NY 10001, or go to www.plannedparenthood.org and make a donation online.
