My 34-year-old sister–call her Carrie–came out to the family a week ago and is looking for us all to support the decisions she’s making surrounding her coming out.
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My question is this: how do I support my sister but still make sure that she doesn’t back herself into a legal and financial quagmire over a person she’s met only three times? –Concerned Sister
Why would you even consider supporting your sister?
You were absolutely correct in your response to his worries about meeting a dominant for fear that she wouldn’t care about doing “permanent damage” to him. Of course a professional dominatrix cares if she does permanent damage! That’s why we’re professionals and not crack-smoking harridans mindlessly wielding whips. We wouldn’t be in business if we routinely left quivering, destroyed heaps of man meat in our wake. That costs extra.
