I’m a straight guy with conventional tastes in women. But a few years ago I “accidentally” ended up at a bar with drag queens. I found myself surprisingly turned on by this drag queen in a G-string that came over and shook her tits in my face. Ever since then I’ve had fantasies about male-to-female transsexuals who still have their male parts.
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Your e-mail arrived, STAB, on the same day that snail mail brought me a copy of the new book I Am Not Myself These Days (HarperCollins) and a request to allow its author, Josh Kilmer-Purcell, to serve as a guest expert in my column. Kilmer-Purcell’s book is a memoir about his first year in New York City, when he was an ad executive by day, a drag queen by night, and shared his apartment with his boyfriend, a crack-addicted BDSM escort. Kilmer-Purcell would, the pitch went, make an excellent guest expert if the subjects of drag, trannies, or escorting ever came up. There are no coincidences, STAB, so I passed your letter and a few others on to Josh.
And what’s a guy who seeks a lady with tits and balls?
Before we get to the wife, a word about whether a thing for she-males makes you gay: “Yes, it does,” says Josh, “because all gay men secretly desire to titty fuck and are consistently frustrated that there are not more butch men out there with huge tits and collagen lips.” (Mr. Kilmer-Purcell is being sarcastic, TBNN. Gay men are not, as a general rule, attracted to she-males. A taste for she-male cock–sometimes called, distressingly enough, “stick pussy”–is pretty much exclusive to straight-identified males.)
I’m a 40-year-old white male who has been with over 100 women. Now I’m obsessed with she-males. In the past year I’ve met a couple of them, both hookers, of course. I made out with them and got a blow job from one without having to pay. But I didn’t get to the part I wanted: giving them the big ram right up the anus. Am I obsessed with anal sex? Or is my problem that I have some dark desire to break my self-imposed “one penis” rule? –Loving the T-Girls in Minneapolis
