I’m a 19-year-old male with a 4.5-inch cock that hasn’t grown since I was 12. My girlfriend says it doesn’t penetrate deeply enough. I’ve already lost two girlfriends because they said the sex wasn’t sensational enough. My doctor says I could have surgery, but my girlfriend says I should take pills. I would go with my doctor, but I don’t want to have them fuck up my cock. –Cock Ain’t Penetrating
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Dreger has worked as a patient advocate for people born with “different-than-average sex anatomies” for more than a decade. She took a spin as a guest expert in this space a few months ago, and her advice for women with big clits was so good that I invited her back to offer some advice for men with small dicks. Dreger in turn invited a couple of additional guest experts to weigh in.
“There are plenty of doctors and Internet charlatans who will be happy to offer CAP ‘enhancements,’ including a variety of surgeries,” says Dreger. But none of them really works. “When challenged to present outcomes publicly in international research forums–any type of objective outcome–these purveyors come up empty-handed,” says Dr. McVary. “They have never shown a benefit to
If surgery is foolish and pills are useless, what can you do? “CAP could try positions that let him get in deeper,” says Dreyer. “Or, better yet, he could take the time to figure out where his girlfriend’s ‘sweet spots’ are, because, according to the sexology literature, length matters less than location. He could also be more creative and use techniques in addition to penis-vagina intercourse.”
Deborah Addington.
